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Friday, September 24, 2010

The Miraculous Phenomenon of Life Response












“Our outward happenings have their seed within, And even this random Fate that imitates Chance,
This mass of unintelligible results, Are the dumb graph of truths that work unseen: The laws of the Unknown create the known.” -from „Savitri‟ by Sri Aurobindo

CONTENTS
Foreword ............................................................................................ i
Introduction ..................................................................................... iii
1. Instantaneous Miraculousness .......................................................1
2. Inner-Outer Correspondence ........................................................ 7
3. The Power of Conscious Choice .................................................. 19
4. Life Response in Literature and Film ......................................... 29
5. Four Human Behaviors that Attract ........................................... 43
6. Embracing the Conditions of Life .............................................. 57
7. The Great Secret: Organization .................................................. 77
8. Making the Connection with Others .......................................... 99
9. Exercising Our Psychological Strength ..................................... 123
10. Discovering the Silence Within ................................................ 139
11. The Ultimate Power of “The Force” ........................................ 167
12. Envisioning and Creating Our Future ..................................... 197
13. A New Way of Living ............................................................... 217
14. Strategies to Make Life Respond ............................................. 227
Postscript: Going Beyond „The Secret‟ .......................................... 243
Selected References ....................................................................... 247
About Roy Posner .......................................................................... 248

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Thursday, September 16, 2010

Intimate Connections












Signet | ISBN 0451148452 | November 5, 1985 | 368 pages | PDF |
IF YOU'RE A SHY PERSON, YOU MUST READ THIS BOOK
This book changed the way I thought about myself. I will never be the same again. There are so many helpful things in this book that I can't list them all, but what helped me the most was the realization that I am not a freak. Sounds simple, but I believed that I was, ever since high school. Now I know that I am completly normal, and life is full of possibilities. If you are afraid of people, think that your coworkers are thinking bad thoughts about you, can't even approach someone of the opposite sex, or are just shy, you need to get this book. You don't have to stay stuck where you are. Don't let life pass you by.



If you have low self-esteem and are lonely, then read this book, it really helps!
I've been battling social anxiety, depression, loneliness, and low self-esteem issues for years to avail. I used to think it was normal but eventually realized it was a problem and sought help. Then, just a few days ago, I was talking to a counselor who I've been seeing regularly for over 2 months, and he told me about this book. I've read the first 7 chapters and this is the best self-help book that I've ever read. This book is giving me a better outlook on life and helping me battle the negative thoughts that have run through my mind for years




This book gave me tools I needed to change negative self-defeating thoughts into powerful life changing thoughts. Dr. Burns's writing style is precise, clear and funny. I laugh out loud as I saw how ridiculous self-defeat thoughts are. I have read self-help books for over 20 years; the Intimate Connection is the only book that as shown my how to truly help myself. After reading and applying the first 5 chapters, I now can stamp out any negative thoughts that automatically pop into my mind. After applying Dr. Burns's techniques, I had the best weekend of my live ever, and on Monday morning I got a called for an ex-boyfriend who begged to see me again. Dr. Burns said this would happen! My life keeps on getting better and better everyday.


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Friday, July 16, 2010

How to Start a Conversation and Make Friends













Contents
A Note from the Author 11
Introduction: Meeting New People and
Making New Friends 13
Part I. Starting Your Conversations with Confidence 19
1 First Contact—Body Language 21
2 Breaking the Ice and Getting the Conversation Going 35
3 Five Seconds to Success: The Art of Remembering
Names 64
Part ii. Continuing Your Conversations with Wit and Charm 73
4 Keeping the Conversation Going Strong 75
5 Getting Your Ideas Across 96
6 Overcoming Conversational Hang-ups 100
Part III. Endinig Your Conversations with a Great Impression 113
7 Closing Conversations Tactfully 115
8 Making Friends 124
Part IV. Boosting Your Conversations to the Next Level 137
9 Recognizing and Using Conversation Styles 139
10 Talking to People from Other Countries 152
11 Customs That Influence Cross-Cultural
Conversations 163
12 Five Golden Rules of Mobile Phone Etiquette 172
13 E-mail and On-line Chat Rooms: Making
Conversation and Friends in Cyberspace 178
14 Improving Your Conversations 190
15 50 Ways to Improve Your Conversations 197
Conclusion 201
Index 203

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Thursday, July 15, 2010

Write Up the Corporate Ladder














Write Up the Corporate Ladder: Successful Writers Reveal the Techniques That Help You Write with Ease and Get Ahead
by Kevin Ryan ISBN:0814471501
AMACOM © 2003 (247 pages)

This helpful book spells out the difference between good, bad, and mediocre writing, provides step-by-step instructions for bringing out your own best ideas, and features personal interviews with Fortune 500 executives and best-selling business authors.
Table of Contents
Write Up the Corporate Ladder—Successful Writers Reveal the Techniques That Help You Write with Ease and Get Ahead
Preface
Part I - The ‘‘Plan Then Write’’ Method
Chapter 1 - Establishing Standards: What Does Good Writing Look Like?
Chapter 2 - The Process
Chapter 3 - Formats and Templates Help You Write Smarter and Faster
Chapter 4 - How Subject, Audience, and Purpose Keep Your Writing Clear and Concise
Chapter 5 - The Art of Writing— How to Solve Problems Using Your Writer’s Intuition
Chapter 6 - The Science of Writing: When and How to Apply Writing Rules
Chapter 7 - How to Write One-Page Memos and Economical E-Mails
Chapter 8 - How To Implement A Personal Writing Improvement PlanPart II - How They Do It
Chapter 9 - Rhonda Abrams: The Successful Business Plan: Secrets & Strategies
Chapter 10 - Ken Blanchard: The One Minute Manager
Chapter 11 - Richard Bolles: What Color Is Your Parachute?
Chapter 12 - Marcus Buckingham: First, Break All the Rules
Chapter 13 - Humberto Cruz: Tribune Media Services Syndicated Financial Columnist
Chapter 14 - Gail Evans: Play Like a Man, Win Like a Woman
Chapter 15 - Greg Farrell: USA Today Money Journalist
Chapter 16 - Michael Lewis: The New New Thing
Chapter 17 - Suze Orman: The 9 Steps to Financial Freedom
Chapter 18 - Roy Williams: The Wizard of Ads
Part III - The Importance of Writing on the Job
Chapter 19 - AT&T: William Oliver, Public Relations Vice President
Chapter 20 - Canon U.S.A., Inc.: Mitch Bardwell, Director/Assistant General Manager, Sales Training Division, Imaging Systems Group
Chapter 21 - Cisco Systems, Inc.: Jere Brooks King, Vice President of Worldwide Marketing Communications
Chapter 22 - Citigroup: Nick Balamaci, Director of Internal Communications
Chapter 23 - Deloitte Consulting: Victor Nau, Partner
Chapter 24 - Marriott International, Inc.: Roger Conner, Vice President of Communications
Chapter 25 - Motorola: Shelagh Lester-Smith, Vice President, Director of Corporate Communications and Public Affairs
Chapter 26 - News America Marketing: Paul Carlucci, Chairman and CEO
Chapter 27 - Procter & Gamble: Ed Burghard, Marketing Director, U.S. Actonel
Chapter 28 - United Parcel Service, Inc.: Ken Sternad, Vice President of Public Affairs
Appendix A - Online Writing Resources Guide
Bibliography
Index
List of Figures
List of Sidebars

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SPEAK LIKE A CEO SECRETS FOR COMMANDING ATTENTION AND GETTING RESULTS













Contents
Preface ix
Acknowledgments xiii
Introduction xv
PART 1
The Secrets: What CEOs and Leaders Know
1. What It Means to Speak like a CEO
(the Ones You Really Admire) 3
2. Eight Secrets of Successful CEOs and
Leaders Who Speak Well 17
3. You’re as Good as You Decide to Be 27
4. What You Can Learn from Ten Thousand Leaders
and Working on TV for Twenty Years 37
5. The Eight Most Frequent Mistakes People Make
in Front of Crowds and Cameras 47
6. The Authenticity Gap: Why the Real You
Must Shine Through 57

7. Taking Stock: How Do Your Skills Add Up? 67
8. Creating a Plan: Leaders Know It’s the Way
to Get Farther, Faster 77
PART 2
The Situations: A Survival Guide for the
Events Where You Must Speak and Be Great
9. Speeches 91
10. Presentations 107
11. Q&A Sessions: Thinking on Your Feet 121
12. Media Interviews 133
13. Leading Meetings 147
14. Conversations 161
PART 3
The Strategies: Become a Great Speaker
by Making a Plan and Working It
15. Ten Things You Can Do to Guarantee Success 175
16. Five Coaching Plans 183
Appendix A ■ Checklists 191
Appendix B ■ Frequently Asked Questions 195
Appendix C ■ Resources and Recommended Reading 199
Appendix D ■ Communication and Leadership 203
Appendix E ■ The Gettysburg Address: Abraham Lincoln 211
Index 213

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Saturday, June 26, 2010

How To Talk TO Anyone













Author, Leil Lowndes gives 92 tricks for becoming a better conversationalist and improving your relationships

Introduction: How to Get Anything You Want
from Anybody (Well, at Least Have
the Best Crack at It!) . . . . . . . . . . . . . . xi
Part One: How to Intrigue Everyone Without
Saying a Word: You Only Have Ten
Seconds to Show You’re a Somebody . . . . . 1
1 How to Make Your Smile Magically Different. . . . . . . . . 5
2 How to Strike Everyone as Intelligent and
Insightful by Using Your Eyes . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 9
3 How to Use Your Eyes to Make Someone Fall in
Love with You . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 14
4 How to Look Like a Big Winner Wherever You Go. . . . 17
5 How to Win Their Heart by Responding to Their
“Inner Infant” . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 21
6 How to Make Someone Feel Like an Old Friend
at Once . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 27
7 How to Come Across as 100 Percent Credible
to Everyone . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 31
8 How to Read People Like You Have ESP . . . . . . . . . . . 35
9 How to Make Sure You Don’t Miss a Single Beat . . . . . 39
Part Two: How to Know What to Say After
You Say “Hi” . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 43
10 How to Start Great Small Talk. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 47
11 How to Sound Like You’ve Got a Super
Personality (No Matter What You’re Saying!) . . . . . . 51
12 How to Make People Want to Start a
Conversation with You . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 56
13 How to Meet the People You Want to Meet . . . . . . . . . 59
14 How to Break into a Tight Crowd . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 61
15 How to Make “Where Are You From?”
Sound Exciting. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 63
16 How to Come Out a Winner Every Time
They Ask, “And What Do You Do?” . . . . . . . . . . . . 68
17 How to Introduce People Like the Host(ess)
with the Most(est) . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 71
18 How to Resuscitate a Dying Conversation. . . . . . . . . . 73
19 How to Enthrall ’Em with Your Choice of
Topic—Them! . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 76
20 How to Never Need to Wonder, “What Do I
Say Next?” . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 78
21 How to Get ’Em Happily Chatting (So You Can
Slip Away if You Want To!) . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 82
22 How to Come Across as a Positive Person. . . . . . . . . . 87
23 How to Always Have Something Interesting
to Say . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 89
Part Three: How to Talk Like a VIP . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 93
24 How to Find Out What They Do (Without Even
Asking!). . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 95
25 How to Know What to Say When They Ask,
“What Do You Do?”. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 98
26 How to Sound Even Smarter Than You Are . . . . . . . . 103
27 How to Not Sound Anxious (Let Them Discover
Your Similarity) . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 107
28 How to Be a “You-Firstie” to Gain Their Respect
and Affection . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 110
29 How to Make Them Feel You “Don’t Smile at
Just Anybody” . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 115
30 How to Avoid Sounding Like a Jerk. . . . . . . . . . . . . . 119
31 How to Use Motivational Speakers’ Techniques to
Enhance Your Conversation . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 121
32 How to Banter Like the Big Shots Do (Big
Winners Tell It Like It Is) . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 127
33 How to Avoid the World’s Worst Conversational
Habit . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 129
34 How to Give Them the Bad News (and Have
Them Like You All the More). . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 131
35 How to Respond When You Don’t Want to
Answer (and Wish They’d Shut the Heck Up) . . . . . 134
36 How to Talk to a Celebrity. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 136
37 How to Make Them Want to Thank You . . . . . . . . . 140
Part Four: How to Be an Insider in Any Crowd:
What Are They All Talking About? . . . . 143
38 How to Be a Modern-Day Renaissance Man
or Woman . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 145
39 How to Sound Like You Know All About Their
Job or Hobby . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 150
40 How to Bare Their Hot Button (Elementary
Doc-Talk) . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 154
41 How to Secretly Learn About Their Lives . . . . . . . . . 157
42 How to Talk When You’re in Other Countries . . . . . . 161
43 How to Talk Them into Getting the “Insider’s
Price” (on Practically Anything You Buy) . . . . . . . . 165
Part Five: How to Sound Like You’re Peas in
a Pod: “Why, We’re Just Alike!”. . . . . . . . 171
44 How to Make Them Feel You’re of the Same “Class” . 173
45 How to Make Them Feel That You’re Like “Family”. . 176
46 How to Really Make It Clear to Them . . . . . . . . . . . 182
47 How to Make Them Feel You Empathize (Without
Just Saying “Yep, Uh Huh, Yeah”) . . . . . . . . . . . . . 186
48 How to Make Them Think You See/Hear/Feel It
Just the Way They Do . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 188
49 How to Make ’Em Think We (Instead of You
vs. Me) . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 192
50 How to Create a Friendly “Private Joke” with Them . . 195
Part Six: How to Differentiate the Power of
Praise from the Folly of Flattery . . . . . . 199
51 How to Compliment Someone (Without Sounding
Like You’re Brownnosing) . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 202
52 How to Be a “Carrier Pigeon” of Good Feelings . . . . 204
53 How to Make ’Em Feel Your Admiration “Just
Slipped Out” . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 207
54 How to Win Their Hearts by Being an “Undercover
Complimenter”. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 209
55 How to Make ’Em Never Forget You with a “Killer
Compliment” . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 211
56 How to Make ’Em Smile with “Itty-Bitty Boosters”. . 214
57 How to Praise with Perfect Timing . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 217
58 How to Make ’Em Want to Compliment You . . . . . . 220
59 How to Make a Loved One Feel You Are THE
Partner for Life . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 224
Part Seven: How to Direct Dial Their Hearts . . . . 229
60 How to Sound More Exciting on the Phone . . . . . . . 231
61 How to Sound Close (Even if You’re Hundreds
of Miles Away) . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 234
62 How to Make ’Em Happy They Called You. . . . . . . . 236
63 How to Sneak Past the Gatekeeper . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 240
64 How to Get What You Want on the Phone from
Big Shots . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 242
65 How to Get What You Want—by Timing! . . . . . . . . 245
66 How to Impress Everyone with Your Outgoing
Voicemail Message . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 248
67 How to Get Them to Call You Back . . . . . . . . . . . . . 252
68 How to Make the Gatekeeper Think You’re
Buddy-Buddy with the VIP . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 255
69 How to Make Them Say You Have Super Sensitivity . 257
70 How to “Listen Between the Lines” on the Phone . . . 259
Part Eight: How to Work a Party Like a Politician
Works a Room: The Politician’s Six-
Point Party Checklist . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 265
71 How to Avoid the Most Common Party Blooper . . . . 270
72 How to Make an Unforgettable Entrance . . . . . . . . . 272
73 How to Meet the People YOU Want to Meet . . . . . . 274
74 How to Subliminally Lure People to You at
a Gathering . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 278
75 How to Make ’Em Feel Like a Movie Star . . . . . . . . . 281
76 How to Amaze Them with What You Remember
About Them. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 285
77 How to Make the Sale with Your Eyeballs . . . . . . . . . 288
Part Nine: How to Break the Most Treacherous
Glass Ceiling of All: Sometimes People
Are Tigers . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 293
78 How to Win Their Affection by Overlooking
Their Bloopers . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 296
79 How to Win Their Heart When Their Tongue
Is Faltering . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 300
80 How to Let ’Em Know “What’s in It” for Them . . . . 303
81 How to Make Them Want to Do Favors for You . . . . 306
82 How to Ask for Favors (and Get Them!) . . . . . . . . . . 309
83 How to Know What Not to Say at Parties . . . . . . . . . 311
84 How to Know What Not to Say at Dinner . . . . . . . . 314
85 How to Know What Not to Say in a Chance
Meeting . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 317
86 How to Prepare Them to Listen to You . . . . . . . . . . . 319
87 How to Turn Their Anger Around (in Three
Sentences or Less) . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 322
88 How to Make ’Em Like You (Even When
You’ve Messed Up) . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 325
89 How to Trap a Rat with Class . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 327
90 How to Get Whatever You Want from Service
Personnel . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 330
91 How to Be a Leader in a Crowd, Not a Follower . . . . 333
92 How to Make All the Right Moves . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 336
Notes . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 343

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Monday, February 8, 2010

29 Leadership Secrets from Jack Welch




CONTENTS
Preface vii

PART I
THE VISIONARY LEADER: MANAGEMENT TACTICS FOR
GAINING THE COMPETITIVE EDGE
LEADERSHIP SECRET 1 Harness the Power of Change 3
LEADERSHIP SECRET 2 Face Reality! 8
LEADERSHIP SECRET 3 Managing Less Is Managing
Better 12
LEADERSHIP SECRET 4 Create a Vision and Then Get
Out of the Way 15
LEADERSHIP SECRET 5 Don’t Pursue a Central Idea;
Instead, Set Only a Few Clear,
General Goals as Business
Strategies 19
LEADERSHIP SECRET 6 Nurture Employees Who
Share the Company’s Values 23

PART II
IGNITING A REVOLUTION: STRATEGIES FOR DEALING
WITH CHANGE
LEADERSHIP SECRET 7 Keep Watch for Ways to Create
Opportunities and to Become
More Competitive 29
LEADERSHIP SECRET 8 Be Number One or Number
Two and Keep Redefining Your
Market 33
LEADERSHIP SECRET 9 Downsize, Before It’s Too Late! 37
LEADERSHIP SECRET 10 Use Acquisitions to Make the
Quantum Leap! 41
LEADERSHIP SECRET 11 Learning Culture I: Use
Boundarylessness and
Empowerment to Nurture a
Learning Culture 46
LEADERSHIP SECRET 12 Learning Culture II: Inculcate the
Best Ideas into the Business, No
Matter Where They Come From 50
LEADERSHIP SECRET 13 The Big Winners in the
Twenty-first Century Will
Be Global 54

PART III
REMOVING THE BOSS ELEMENT: PRODUCTIVITY SECRETS
FOR CREATING THE BOUNDARYLESS ORGANIZATION
LEADERSHIP SECRET 14 De-Layer: Get Rid of the Fat! 61
LEADERSHIP SECRET 15 Spark Productivity Through the
‘‘S’’ Secrets (Speed, Simplicity,
and Self-Confidence) 65
LEADERSHIP SECRET 16 Act Like a Small Company 69
LEADERSHIP SECRET 17 Remove the Boundaries! 73
LEADERSHIP SECRET 18 Unleash the Energy of Your
Workers 77
LEADERSHIP SECRET 19 Listen to the People Who
Actually Do the Work 81
LEADERSHIP SECRET 20 Go Before Your Workers and
Answer All Their Questions 86

PART IV
NEXT GENERATION LEADERSHIP: INITIATIVES FOR
DRIVING AND SUSTAINING DOUBLE-DIGIT GROWTH
LEADERSHIP SECRET 21 Stretch: Exceed Your Goals as
Often as You Can 93
LEADERSHIP SECRET 22 Make Quality a Top Priority 97
LEADERSHIP SECRET 23 Make Quality the Job of Every
Employee 101
LEADERSHIP SECRET 24 Make Sure Everyone Understands
How Six Sigma Works 105
LEADERSHIP SECRET 25 Make Sure the Customer Feels
Quality 110
LEADERSHIP SECRET 26 Grow Your Service Business:
It’s the Wave of the Future 115
LEADERSHIP SECRET 27 Take Advantage of
E-Business Opportunities 119
LEADERSHIP SECRET 28 Make Existing Businesses
Internet-Ready—Don’t Assume
That New Business Models Are
the Answer 123
LEADERSHIP SECRET 29 Use E-Business to Put the Final
Nail in Bureaucracy 127
Afterword 133

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